How to prepare for a Divorce

BEFORE THE DIVORCE

  • CONSIDER MARRIAGE COUNSELING
  • CONTACT AN ATTORNEY
  • OBTAIN PO. BOX TO RECEIVE ANY PERSONAL MAIL
    LEGAL DOCUMENTS
  • Obtain a copy of your marriage certificate
  • Make a copy of any prenuptial or post-nuptial agreements
  • Make a copy of licenses
  • Make copy of trust documents
  • Make copies of any will executed during marriage
  • Make copies of any other documents that you feel could be important to the process
  • Update your will.

DURING THE SEPARATION

BANKS AND CREDIT CARDS

  • Make a list of all bank accounts
  • Make a list of all credit cards
  • Confirm current balance
  • Obtain copies of statements for the past year
  • Confirm login information for joint accounts
  • Open a new checking and savings account in your name
  • Put money in your new account to pay living expenses and any emergencies for a few months
  • Apply for a credit card in your own name if you do not already have one
    BILLS AND FINANCES
  • Make a list of all monthly bills that are paid by you and your spouse
  • Obtain statements for the past year
  • Confirm the current balance
  • Confirm account numbers
  • Confirm access information
    MARITAL HOME
  • Make copies of mortgage statements for the past 6 months
  • Confirm account number
  • Obtain bank loan and mortgage information
  • Take pictures of each room and its contents in the home
  • Make copies of payment statements
  • Make a list of the assets
  • Obtain a copy of your homeowner’s or Renter’s insurance policy
  • Make a copy of leasing agreements
  • Make a copy of real estate tax bill
  • Make a list of monthly expenses
    MOVING
  • Research apartments or homes for rent. If you have children keep in mind school districts
  • Property
  • Obtain copies of deeds
  • Confirm bank loan information
  • Take pictures of the property
  • Obtain a current market value appraisal for all real estate owned
    VEHICLES
  • Confirm loan information
  • Confirm account numbers
  • Obtain copy of titles
  • Obtain an estimate of the value of your vehicle
  • Obtain a copy of the declaration sheet for all auto insurance policies
    CHILDREN
  • Obtain school Information
  • Update school if address changes
  • Make a copy of your child’s class schedule
  • Make a list of after school activities
  • Contact the school if there are any changes to address, or transportation
  • Request copies of child care expenses
    DEBTS
  • Make a list of any debts you or your spouse have
  • Confirm amount owed
  • Confirm account numbers
  • Call any “joint” creditors and ask what actions you should take to protect your interests during divorce and to prevent any adverse consequences to your credit report
  • TAX RETURNS
  • Gather tax return information for the past 3 years

INCOME INFORMATION

  • Obtain a copy of your W-2s or 1099s for the past 3 years
  • Obtain a copy of your spouse’s W-2s or 1099s for the past 3 years, if you have access
  • Obtain copies of your paystubs for the previous 6 months
    EMPLOYER BENEFITS
  • Make a list of employer-provided benefits
  • Obtain copy of disability insurance policy
  • Obtain a copy of life insurance
    CREDIT REPORT
  • Request a copy of your credit report. This will show all debts and accounts
    RETIREMENT ACCOUNTS
  • Obtain current balance for any 401k accounts or retirement accounts
    INVESTMENT ACCOUNTS
  • Obtain current balance statements for all stock, bond, and investment accounts
    PASSWORDS
  • Change your passwords to all of your social media, e-mail, and online accounts
    OBTAIN NEW E-MAIL ACCOUNT
    HEALTH INSURANCE
  • Obtain copy of health insurance policy

INVESTMENT ACCOUNTS

  • Obtain current balance statements for all stock, bond, and investment accounts
    PASSWORDS
  • Change your passwords to all of your social media, e-mail, and online accounts
    OBTAIN NEW E-MAIL ACCOUNT
    HEALTH INSURANCE
  • Obtain copy of health insurance policy
  • Obtain copy of health savings account
  • Make a copy of health insurance documents
    PERSONAL PROPERTY
  • Make a list of all assets such as furniture, art, and jewelry
  • Calculate the approximate value of each item
  • Make a list of items that are important to you and would like to keep
    POWER OF ATTORNEY
  • Determine whether you need to revoke any power of attorney documents that name your spouse as your agent